SHE'S PREGNANT...
What is your role?
RESPECT her.
Remain by her side. Regarless of your future with her, she needs you right now.
Expect to be part of the solution. You are both parents and have an obligation to love and support that baby regardless of your relationship with her.
Seek wise counsel. Come with her for her counsultation. A pregancy center can provide you information and explain your options.
Prepare to tell the parents together.
Express yourself honestly. Its okay to be afraid or even angry, but remember she is experiencing those feelings too.
Care for her and let her know she has your support!
Tell no one until she is ready. The both of you have a very important decision to make.
THE TEST IS NEGATIVE...
Re-examine the relationship. Take your time getting to know one another.
Evaluate your priorities. What are your goals? How would having a baby change that?
Spend time with other people and avoid alone time...you know what can happen!
Protect her reputation. Don't brag about your sexual conquests. Be mature.
Express yourself with honesty. Don't tell her you "love her" to get what you want. She deserves better.
Care for her. Little things mean a lot.
Treat her like a lady and the princess she is.
(RESPECT content used with permission: Choices Resource Center, copyright Debbie Raines)
